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The female prostate

The female prostate consists of erectile tissue, situated around the urethra. The prostate tissue has numerous glands and tubes that end in the urethra and the mucous membrane around the urethral opening. Length and form may vary; and as there are so many glands, the flow of joy may be prolific. The ejaculation fluid is produced in these glands; it will find an exit through the urethra and adjacent channels.

Schematische Darstellung der weiblichen Prostata

© Frauenkörper – neu gesehen. Hg. Föderation der Feministischen Frauen Gesundheits Zentren USA

The rippled tissue of this highly-sensitive region is best felt when putting a finger into the entry area of the vulva. When this tissue is stimulated and swells, it may cause a feeling of having to empty the bladder (not surprising, it’s very close-by). This area is called the G-spot.

The pelvic base

Schematische Darstellung der Klitoris-Muskeln im Bereich des Beckenbodens

© Frauenkörper – neu gesehen. Hg. Föderation der Feministischen Frauen Gesundheits Zentren USA

A well-trained pelvic base is the key to physical and sexual well-being. One doesn’t have to be pregnant or wait till advanced age to get intimate with the surrounding muscles. The pelvic base is a highly active sexual organ. Treat it well and consciously and you are ensured of a lively sex drive and an all-over affirmative attitude to life.



What I really want is to spread the word about women’s sexuality and to build up – especially – women’s confidence in themselves. For sexuality is a creative power that fills us with energy and lets us flourish.

Discussions around sexuality are still weighed down by all kinds of ballast. Recent surveys have shown that 60% of all those questioned, but especially women, find it hard to talk about sex. German government studies of the centre for sexual education have even concluded that knowledge about sexuality is diminishing. Serious, progressive education has a hard stance against the distortions spread in the public arena. Sexual images, it seems, remain firmly in the hands and minds of visual media and advertising companies. Teaching materials used at schools are reticent about describing and showing details of the female anatomy, many of them are simply incorrect. About female ejaculation and the prostate hardly anything may be found. Ignorance creates dependancy, it weakens potency and female desire. As a rule women do not have “sexual dysfunctions“ or “blocked orgasms“ – that is, in any case, what the pharmaceutical industry makes us believe. There is a serious lack of knowledge about sexuality and what is equally lacking is an empowerment for masturbation and self-exploration. If a woman does not know what she likes, how can she tell others?

I want to make women curious. Curious to know themselves inside out, to find lust without shame and to be able to share such feelings with others. Each and every one will have their very own way to find out. So:

Viva la vulva! Have fun trying out whatever makes you feel good.

Yours, Laura Méritt

Laura Méritt has a Ph.D. in the science of social communication with a wide experience as a sexologist. For 20 years now she has been involved in sex education nation-wide and internationally. Her open invitation is addressed at everyone to engage in an affirmative dialogue on sexuality. As a feminist academic she is well-versed in an wholistic approach that brings together theory and practice, verbal and non-verbal communication techniques. She emphasizes the social context of body politics, and takes this term literally, that is, as valid for all kinds of bodies. Her trademark is laughter in all its variants, her preference a language that is clear to all, is direct and friendly

Women’s bodies

“A New View of a Woman´s Body”

Book cover of "Frauenkörper neu gesehen"In the 1970s “A New View of a Woman’s Body” had already caused a huge publicity stir both in the US and in the German speaking parts of Europe. Until then, such radical drawings of the female body could not be found or seen anywhere on either side of the Atlantic. The illustrations broke new grounds and paved fresh pathways by showing the clitoris in details thitherto unknown. Running in parallel, school medicine had been enriched by alternative research in the meantime.

In this fully re-worked edition, the revolutionary depiction of the female sexual complex has been brought to completion by deploying diverse methods of self examination and re-surfacing female health questions, such as contraception, Safer Sex, abortion, beauty industries and intimate surgery. One of the newly added chapters focuses on the notions of sexual orientation and gender identities.

This book is a true treasure for its wholistic and detailed micro-perspectives of the female sexual anatomy. A special highpoint is on the context of the female sexual complex and how its parts connect with each other. Any such accounts are sadly missing in traditional studies of anatomy even today, nor are they given in standard medical books or other seemingly “professional” literature.
It’s about time to change this situation, so enjoy this good read!


The female prostate is acknowledged as a functional anatomic sexual organ. Nevertheless the existence is discussed again and again.

Dr. Laura Méritt illuminates and encourages to experiment: How does the prostate looks like, where is she located, how is she stimulated and how do women ejaculate?

Lectures, workshops and salons are held regularly and invite to share experiences in an open atmosphere. -> Booking form

There is no need to book the lectures, but we would appreciate it for our organization, if you could give us a notice via email or phone. Thank you very much.

Upcoming Dates

riday, 6 January / 24. March / 19. May / 17 July/
1. September /3. November 2023, 18.00h
Energy waves from the pelvic floor to laugh along. No prior knowledge needed.
Exclusivitäten, Fürbringerstrasse 2, 10961 Berlin-Kreuzberg.
Entry 20 €

Saturday, 21th of January 2022 from15 – 18h for women*
Saturday, 11th of March 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women* (booked out)
Saturday, 8th of April 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for singles, poly, couples* – all gender welcome
Saturday, 6th of May 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women*
Saturday, 1th of July 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women*
Saturday, 6th of May 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women*
Saturday, 2th of September 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for couples, and poly, all relationships of all gender, single women welcome*
Saturday, 4th of November 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women*
Saturday, 2th of December 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women* (booked out)

Saturday, 17th of February from 15 – 18.30h for singles, poly, couples* – all gender welcome
Saturday, 9th of March 2023 from 15 – 18.30h for women*

Workshop on vulva massage, techniques and training to integrate in everybodys sexlife.
Conducted by Dr. Laura Méritt
Exclusivitäten, Fürbringerstraße 2, 10961 Berlin-Kreuzberg.

Entry: € 90,– Couple 175€, triple 250€
Single Men*: please contact me for the organization of persons to exercise

“The Massage helped me to differentiate the parts of my vulva and experience the feelings related to in a slow and caring way. How revolutionary for me!” Frizzie

Saturday, March 18 2023 15.00 – 18.00h (women* only) – booked out!
Saturday, April 22 2023 for couples, poly and singles (all gender welcome)
15.00 – 18.00h
Saturday, September 16 2023 15.00 – 18.00h (women*  only)- booked out!
Saturday, November 11 2023 for couples, poly and singles of all gender – booked out!
(all gender and singles welcome) 15.00 – 18.00h

The female* prostate was known as a pleasure organ for over thousands of years. Modern science did finally ignore her existence. Now she is here again and has a coming out together with the female ejaculation. 
In the workshop you will learn in the first part about the sexual anatomy and the function of “the paraurethral tissues” and practice some pelvic exercises which support the flow of the fountain. In the second part of the workshop participants explore their individual G-Spot and Prostate: what she looks like, where is she located, how is she stimulated and how she ejaculates. I will guide through all the explorations and moderate the exchange of experiences.

Cost 90 € each person, couple 170€, triple 250€

“A discovery of my vulva and we are both really happy about having more and more contact.”

Literature: Female Ejaculation. The gush of Ecstasy.
(Ed). Dr. Laura Méritt, Berlin 2015.   Order


Friday, January 20th 2023, 18-20h
Friday, May 5th 2023, 18-20h
Friday, September 15th 2023, 18.00h
Exclusivitäten, Fürbringerstrasse 2, 10961 Berlin-Kreuzberg. Entry 20 €

We look at our vulvas and other vulvas and appreciate their diversity, experiencing what it is like to show our pussy to others or to be looked at by others. In the process, we learn a vocabulary and enrich our language for positive detailed description. We also acquire the ability to give and accept compliments with gratitude.

We focus on one or two hand movements or touches you learn at the vulva massage and devote ourselves entirely to slowness. For this we consciously use our breath and voice and come deeper and deeper into relaxation and feeling
Practice is done in pairs, the roles are reversed. Both the giving and the receiving side actively let the calm come over them and go into the depths of pleasure under my guidance. Recommended for all to establish a connection to body, soul, spirit.

Tuesday, 8th of March from 18-20h for women* 30€
Friday, 29. of April from 18-20h for women*: 30€

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Our offer

If a date doesn’t fit in your timetable or you prefer to learn without people around you, you can make an appointment for an individual consultation.

Single Consultation:

I explain you in one hour the anatomy and functions of the female prostate as well the the ejaculation. You can ask me all personal and intimate questions. If you want I will guide you to explore your very special prostate and find out, where she is located, how she looks like and how you can stimulate her. A prostate-massage will show you, what you like and how you can go on.
100€ / practical bodywork included 180 € / 1,5h 250€ / 2h 300€

Couple Consultation:

If you want to explore the prostate and the female ejaculation with your partner, you can book an hour for you two. I also can show you exercises.
120 € / practical bodywork included 200 € / / 1,5h 300€ / 2h 350€

Phone Consultation:

Not all of us live in the same city, but we have medias to communicate. So you can book a phonetalk. I answer you to every single question.
Duration 40 minutes, 100 €

Online Consultation:

Online, there are even more opportunities to answer questions and provide practical guidance. I will be happy to assist you here.
Duration 30 minutes 45 € / 45 minutes 70 / 60 minutes 90€

Group Activities:

Education is very important to show everybody the richness of our sexcual expressions. I am pleased for every inquiry, going further then an individual or couple consultation. I do lectures, public and semi-public sessions whereever and whenever possible.

Please ask for duration and prices under laura.meritt(att)posteo.de

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